Why Do Lovers Leave?
Why Lovers Leave
by T.W. Jackson
Confused like the rest of the world??
What adds confusion to this is the "reasons" seem to change every time you ask!
Sound familiar?
Are you ready to hear this elusive secret!?
Here it is... While men and women are very different obviously;
(Note: We highly recommend reading both sections for Men & Women)
Why Men Leave Women
Men! Why do they leave? What reasons do they give?
Well, they give several, if not a dozen different reasons to end a relationship or why they don't want to be with their partners anymore... or simply call it quits.
Are they trying to confuse you on purpose?
Not at all!
In fact, what you may find very interesting is that when several polls and relationship studies were closely examined; they showed various excuses or "reasons" that a man would give as to why they left their lover.
Men will give many excuses most often because they have problems sorting out their own feelings. You see, a man has trouble putting their feelings into words.
It was even quite a challenge for the relationship experts and psychologists to sort it all out!
Studies had shown a very common reason in spite of all this though.
Specifically... Dr. John Gray and other experts, had determined from several hundred different responses from men, what the reason was for their primarily losing interest. In fact the #1 “reason” given was because they were being “nagged!”
It's important for you to understand that there is an underlying reason here behind this response. How can you even know if your man feels as if you're nagging him?
To understand this first, there is a simple CORE reason that a man will leave a woman which is translated from the reasons they all gave in these studies.
Those reasons from a man might be, "I can do nothing right," or being "nagged"...
But when you get right down to it, the reason a man will leave
...is because they stop feeling ADMIRED!
You see... MEN want to feel important and most of all, ADMIRED!
When they stop feeling admired, this is a major frontal attack on not only their self esteem, but it also calls their "manhood" into question.
Now...at first this may seem just to simple, and a little unbelievable.
But when you start to give it some thought... you will realize how TRUE it really is.
We guarantee you as well, that no red-blooded man is EVER going to admit it to their wives or girlfriends. It's not as if your men are going to say,
“I don't feel admired anymore...”
So lets discuss the most common situations that go on around the world everyday.
Harry meets Sally. And when they first meet Sally is quite taken with Harry and she lets him know it very often by giving him many compliments... but more importantly... Sally always is smiling and seems VERY HAPPY when Harry is around.
This is a very big clue...
You see men calculate subconsciously how well they are doing in a relationship by how "admired" they are by their partner….
...at how HAPPY their partner appears to them!
To a man, a happy partner translates into ADMIRATION!
This is exactly why out of the thousands of men who were polled on the recurring reasons, over and over, about why they had abandoned, left, or even wanted to leave a relationship… the man said the following statement:
"No matter what I did...I couldn't make her happy anymore!"
This is ALSO the #1 reason why a man will CHEAT.
While we watch movie after movie that seems to portray a man going after a "prettier" woman... this is far from the truth why a man cheats.
If a man does not feel admired in whatever relationship he is in... he will subconsciously seek admiration from elsewhere. This is why a man who is feeling un-admired in his relationship with find himself seeking an opportunity of another woman who comes along, and makes him feel ADMIRED... this is a relationship that is at SERIOUS risk of an infidelity about to happen!
And this is EXACTLY how it happens in almost every situation!
A smiling, happy and giggly coworker showers him with compliments and beams whenever he walks in the room... this is an incredible ADMIRATION builder!
This is also a very incredible turn on for him...
A turn on to a man who does NOT feel admired at home.
Does this picture start to become clear now?
This type of admiration and adoration will have far LESS of an effect whenever a man who feels admired at home, finds himself in this situation. It will usually do nothing more but reinforce the admiration his partner already shows for him.
It can also be “nice" for a man to receive a compliment from another woman much like the same type of effect whenever a woman has received an admiration or compliment from another man... but is happy with her partner. She is only reinforced.
So you probably think now that you are going to have to run around like a gitty, giggly, school girl; beaming and showering your man with admiration just to get him back?
Not at all!
Think about this...
A man feels admired when the woman he is with is HAPPY with him.
There are dozens of things that you can do... but it is important to understand that one of the biggest killers to a relationship, that men complain about the most often... is "nagging"
Nagging is the biggest killing factor of a man being able to feel admired!
Does that mean you can't express your feelings or dis-satisfactions?
You most certainly can; but you just have to do it in a more effective way.
So how do you start to get your ex back?
You start making him feel admired again!
...but at the same time...you need to keep YOUR dignity...and get what you want!
This is very easy to do once you learn a few simple methods. If you are serious about getting your "man" back... and keeping him once you got him back... or even if you are in a good relationship now and want to ensure a long and healthy relationship...
We encourage you to get your very own copy of "The Magic Of Making Up” immediately, and start to learn exactly what you need to do to make your man feel admired again... and at the SAME TIME... keep your dignity and get what you want and need from your relationship.
This is available for download right now in a format that is called an electronic book or, “eBook” which means you can download it right now instantly, and start learning how to get your ex back.
It is amazingly effective and highly recommended!
You’ll be amazed at how well it really works!
Visit The Website Here And Get Your Copy Now!
Small Warning: This guide is very powerful, but the website looks a little cheesy.
Why Women Leave Men
Women are wonderful and truly amazing! They can put up with so much from men and will even endure great hardships without ever considering their relationship being threatened. They put up with a lot from men and will even go to the depths of hell for their man if they feel one very important and one very major PRIMARY emotion.
In fact this one emotion, or the lack of for that matter...
is the MAIN reason a woman will leave.
If a woman can feel this ONE EMOTION... they are incredibly loyal!
Surprisingly, compared to men... it was much easier for relationship experts and psychologists to pinpoint why a woman leaves a man.
A rich and handsome multi-millionaire can pay them a great compliment... try to flatter them, and even go out of their way to swoon a lady that catches their eye... but she is not about to leave a man she loves if her man makes her feel APPRECIATED!
Women want, need, and crave… APPRECIATION.
The most common statement made by women who were studied and polled about why they left a relationship; and the CORE underlying message was...
"He never appreciated anything I did for him!"
Now...when a woman stops feeling appreciated. Your relationship is in big trouble...
A woman will not stay in a relationship and WILL leave,
...if she feels that you do not appreciate her!
This is one of the underlying reasons why infidelity is so devastating to a woman.
If you have had an affair... a woman will immediately feel that you have NO appreciation for her. You have betrayed her, and dishonored yourself!
Those feelings are the lack of appreciation.
See how that can make sense?
And this is almost always why the very first question a woman asks is:
..."Do You Love Her?"
You see... asking if you love the woman you cheated on her with, after she finds out about an affair or if it was just a fling, is really a question of appreciation.
So "do you love her" or "was it just a fling?" is a need to know for a woman.
Also... your girl is much more likely to fall prey to another man who comes in and shows her even the tiniest bit of appreciation.
This is how the Don Juan’s swoop in and steal other men’s wives!
If your woman has left you...
Your very first steps to trying to win her back, are to begin letting her know that you, DO APPRECIATE HER!
However... BIG WARNING!
Women seem to have a built in LIE DETECTOR
And if you try to B.S. them... they will know it!
And if you do it incorrectly... you are going to do a LOT more damage than good.
The major mistake that most men make when trying to show their appreciation, is not understanding that men and women KEEP SCORE VERY DIFFERENTLY!
To get your woman back... you have to let her know that you appreciate her.
...And STILL do!
You can’t just tell her... you have to SHOW her as well... and you have to truly have an understanding of HER scoring system... how SHE keeps score.
These are actually pretty easy things to learn.
The methods are simple. And if you still do appreciate your woman, which we are obviously going to assume that you do... and if you are wanting to get her back...
Then you have to know how to SHOW her...
The best guide you will ever find on getting your girl back, and learning the techniques that show and prove to her how much you appreciate her... is called
“The Magic Of Making Up.”
You will know EXACTLY what to do to get your girl back, and be surprised at how well your ex responds to what you have learned.
IT WORKS... GUARANTEED!
Visit The Website Here And Get Your Copy Now!
Small Warning: The website is very entertaining, and might appear a little weird.
We even think it’s kind of cheesy, but it drives home a very strong point using the story line which most people can relate to.
An Ending Note For Both Men AND Women.
Every minute you wait is another minute that you risk having another man or another woman making YOUR man feel admired...
...or YOUR woman feel appreciated!
So for some odd reason, if you don't grab yourself your own copy of
The Magic Of Making Up
-which we just can't see why you wouldn't...
Just make sure all you Men go out there and make your woman feel appreciated!
...and Women! Go make your man feel admired again!
by T.W. Jackson
Confused like the rest of the world??
Most men AND women, actually ARE very confused when someone they care for deeply, decides to leave or exit a relationship!
The one doing the leaving will usually give a variety of excuses and many reasons why they are ending the relationship. They will give so many reasons, that when you put it all together… it literally makes NO sense!
The one doing the leaving will usually give a variety of excuses and many reasons why they are ending the relationship. They will give so many reasons, that when you put it all together… it literally makes NO sense!
What adds confusion to this is the "reasons" seem to change every time you ask!
Sound familiar?
There is hope however. There is actually one very simple reason why men leave women... and there is one very simple reason why a woman will leave as well. There are CORE reasons we will share with you that the rest of the world is confused about!
Are you ready to hear this elusive secret!?
Here it is... While men and women are very different obviously;
THE CORE REASON a lover will leave is actually just one thing...
And this one thing is CRITICAL for you to understand...
And this one thing is CRITICAL for you to understand...
This is very important for you to understand; because when a man or woman can understand the CORE reasons why their lover will leave... it will help you keep all your relationships on track, and even assist in getting you back together if your lover has already left. Understanding this reason will mend your relationship and make it stronger!
Why Men Leave Women
Men! Why do they leave? What reasons do they give?
Well, they give several, if not a dozen different reasons to end a relationship or why they don't want to be with their partners anymore... or simply call it quits.
Are they trying to confuse you on purpose?
Not at all!
In fact, what you may find very interesting is that when several polls and relationship studies were closely examined; they showed various excuses or "reasons" that a man would give as to why they left their lover.
Men will give many excuses most often because they have problems sorting out their own feelings. You see, a man has trouble putting their feelings into words.
It was even quite a challenge for the relationship experts and psychologists to sort it all out!
Studies had shown a very common reason in spite of all this though.
Specifically... Dr. John Gray and other experts, had determined from several hundred different responses from men, what the reason was for their primarily losing interest. In fact the #1 “reason” given was because they were being “nagged!”
It's important for you to understand that there is an underlying reason here behind this response. How can you even know if your man feels as if you're nagging him?
To understand this first, there is a simple CORE reason that a man will leave a woman which is translated from the reasons they all gave in these studies.
Those reasons from a man might be, "I can do nothing right," or being "nagged"...
But when you get right down to it, the reason a man will leave
...is because they stop feeling ADMIRED!
You see... MEN want to feel important and most of all, ADMIRED!
When they stop feeling admired, this is a major frontal attack on not only their self esteem, but it also calls their "manhood" into question.
Now...at first this may seem just to simple, and a little unbelievable.
But when you start to give it some thought... you will realize how TRUE it really is.
We guarantee you as well, that no red-blooded man is EVER going to admit it to their wives or girlfriends. It's not as if your men are going to say,
“I don't feel admired anymore...”
So lets discuss the most common situations that go on around the world everyday.
Harry meets Sally. And when they first meet Sally is quite taken with Harry and she lets him know it very often by giving him many compliments... but more importantly... Sally always is smiling and seems VERY HAPPY when Harry is around.
This is a very big clue...
You see men calculate subconsciously how well they are doing in a relationship by how "admired" they are by their partner….
...at how HAPPY their partner appears to them!
To a man, a happy partner translates into ADMIRATION!
This is exactly why out of the thousands of men who were polled on the recurring reasons, over and over, about why they had abandoned, left, or even wanted to leave a relationship… the man said the following statement:
"No matter what I did...I couldn't make her happy anymore!"
This is ALSO the #1 reason why a man will CHEAT.
While we watch movie after movie that seems to portray a man going after a "prettier" woman... this is far from the truth why a man cheats.
If a man does not feel admired in whatever relationship he is in... he will subconsciously seek admiration from elsewhere. This is why a man who is feeling un-admired in his relationship with find himself seeking an opportunity of another woman who comes along, and makes him feel ADMIRED... this is a relationship that is at SERIOUS risk of an infidelity about to happen!
And this is EXACTLY how it happens in almost every situation!
A smiling, happy and giggly coworker showers him with compliments and beams whenever he walks in the room... this is an incredible ADMIRATION builder!
This is also a very incredible turn on for him...
A turn on to a man who does NOT feel admired at home.
Does this picture start to become clear now?
This type of admiration and adoration will have far LESS of an effect whenever a man who feels admired at home, finds himself in this situation. It will usually do nothing more but reinforce the admiration his partner already shows for him.
It can also be “nice" for a man to receive a compliment from another woman much like the same type of effect whenever a woman has received an admiration or compliment from another man... but is happy with her partner. She is only reinforced.
So you probably think now that you are going to have to run around like a gitty, giggly, school girl; beaming and showering your man with admiration just to get him back?
Not at all!
Think about this...
A man feels admired when the woman he is with is HAPPY with him.
There are dozens of things that you can do... but it is important to understand that one of the biggest killers to a relationship, that men complain about the most often... is "nagging"
Nagging is the biggest killing factor of a man being able to feel admired!
Does that mean you can't express your feelings or dis-satisfactions?
You most certainly can; but you just have to do it in a more effective way.
So how do you start to get your ex back?
You start making him feel admired again!
...but at the same time...you need to keep YOUR dignity...and get what you want!
This is very easy to do once you learn a few simple methods. If you are serious about getting your "man" back... and keeping him once you got him back... or even if you are in a good relationship now and want to ensure a long and healthy relationship...
We encourage you to get your very own copy of "The Magic Of Making Up” immediately, and start to learn exactly what you need to do to make your man feel admired again... and at the SAME TIME... keep your dignity and get what you want and need from your relationship.
This is available for download right now in a format that is called an electronic book or, “eBook” which means you can download it right now instantly, and start learning how to get your ex back.
It is amazingly effective and highly recommended!
You’ll be amazed at how well it really works!
Visit The Website Here And Get Your Copy Now!
Small Warning: This guide is very powerful, but the website looks a little cheesy.
Why Women Leave Men
Women are wonderful and truly amazing! They can put up with so much from men and will even endure great hardships without ever considering their relationship being threatened. They put up with a lot from men and will even go to the depths of hell for their man if they feel one very important and one very major PRIMARY emotion.
In fact this one emotion, or the lack of for that matter...
is the MAIN reason a woman will leave.
If a woman can feel this ONE EMOTION... they are incredibly loyal!
Surprisingly, compared to men... it was much easier for relationship experts and psychologists to pinpoint why a woman leaves a man.
A rich and handsome multi-millionaire can pay them a great compliment... try to flatter them, and even go out of their way to swoon a lady that catches their eye... but she is not about to leave a man she loves if her man makes her feel APPRECIATED!
Women want, need, and crave… APPRECIATION.
The most common statement made by women who were studied and polled about why they left a relationship; and the CORE underlying message was...
"He never appreciated anything I did for him!"
Now...when a woman stops feeling appreciated. Your relationship is in big trouble...
A woman will not stay in a relationship and WILL leave,
...if she feels that you do not appreciate her!
This is one of the underlying reasons why infidelity is so devastating to a woman.
If you have had an affair... a woman will immediately feel that you have NO appreciation for her. You have betrayed her, and dishonored yourself!
Those feelings are the lack of appreciation.
See how that can make sense?
And this is almost always why the very first question a woman asks is:
..."Do You Love Her?"
You see... asking if you love the woman you cheated on her with, after she finds out about an affair or if it was just a fling, is really a question of appreciation.
So "do you love her" or "was it just a fling?" is a need to know for a woman.
Also... your girl is much more likely to fall prey to another man who comes in and shows her even the tiniest bit of appreciation.
This is how the Don Juan’s swoop in and steal other men’s wives!
If your woman has left you...
Your very first steps to trying to win her back, are to begin letting her know that you, DO APPRECIATE HER!
However... BIG WARNING!
Women seem to have a built in LIE DETECTOR
And if you try to B.S. them... they will know it!
And if you do it incorrectly... you are going to do a LOT more damage than good.
The major mistake that most men make when trying to show their appreciation, is not understanding that men and women KEEP SCORE VERY DIFFERENTLY!
To get your woman back... you have to let her know that you appreciate her.
...And STILL do!
You can’t just tell her... you have to SHOW her as well... and you have to truly have an understanding of HER scoring system... how SHE keeps score.
These are actually pretty easy things to learn.
The methods are simple. And if you still do appreciate your woman, which we are obviously going to assume that you do... and if you are wanting to get her back...
Then you have to know how to SHOW her...
The best guide you will ever find on getting your girl back, and learning the techniques that show and prove to her how much you appreciate her... is called
“The Magic Of Making Up.”
You will know EXACTLY what to do to get your girl back, and be surprised at how well your ex responds to what you have learned.
IT WORKS... GUARANTEED!
Visit The Website Here And Get Your Copy Now!
Small Warning: The website is very entertaining, and might appear a little weird.
We even think it’s kind of cheesy, but it drives home a very strong point using the story line which most people can relate to.
An Ending Note For Both Men AND Women.
Every minute you wait is another minute that you risk having another man or another woman making YOUR man feel admired...
...or YOUR woman feel appreciated!
So for some odd reason, if you don't grab yourself your own copy of
The Magic Of Making Up
-which we just can't see why you wouldn't...
Just make sure all you Men go out there and make your woman feel appreciated!
...and Women! Go make your man feel admired again!
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