Do You Still Have A Chance Of
Reuniting With Your Ex?

Your chances may be greater than you think.

After helping hundreds of couples reunite, we've observed several clues that can help you take the temperature of your partners likeliness to reunite with you.

Shockingly, even when an ex partner sings an opposite tune, if
these behavioral clues exist, you would be better off to ignore the 'music' and instead 'follow the clues'.

Much like Sherlock Holmes follows the EVIDENCE and pays little attention to what the suspects say.

We hope these clues will help you gauge your chances with reuniting with your ex.

Clue #1

If your ex still shows ANY KIND OF EMOTION towards you

Remember folks, ...the opposite of love is NOT hate!
The opposite of love is complete and utter indifference.

Here's some proof:

If your ex found out that you went out on a date with someone else last night, would they be miffed, angry, & hurt?
...or just completely and utterly care less?

It's only if they couldn't care less at all that you might be in trouble and you have a LOT of work to do!

Other emotions offer more proof!

Think about anybody you are angry with or have been really angry with for more than a couple days?

Chances are that you care for that person deeply because we only give that level of extreme anger to someone that is important to us when they hurt us.

We will be mad at the person who cuts us off in traffic for only a couple minutes.  But, some families will hold nasty grudges FOR YEARS over a few stinging words said in haste!

The love and caring is STILL THERE.  In many cases, a truly effective apology is all that is needed to restore the relationship quickly.

(See the Clean Slate Method for truly effective apologies)
"Magic Of Making Up System"

Clue #2


Keeping In Touch

Do NOT confuse keeping in touch with the ominous lets be friends.

While 'let's be friends' sends waves of panic to the receiver, it is really quite neutral.  It's the amount of contact after the words 'let's be friends' that is the dead give away.

Hearing 'let's be friends' and then ZERO contact means, you got a
whole lot of work ahead of you.

However...
If it is followed up by any means of regular contact, such as calling, texting, or accidental meetings of running into each other.


This means something MUCH DIFFERENT!

IMPORTANT NOTE: If you have kids, pets or shared property then any
relevant conversation regarding those topics does NOT count as
contact. But, if it often strays into other topics, that it does count.

In the correspondence and assistance of hundreds of other couples;
we have concluded two reasons...

One reason is hopeful sounding and can be the fact they fear losing the friendship.  This is actually very rare, and while the second reason sounds darker and even horribly bad... it rings true far more often then not.  That is that they are keeping you on a tether as an 'emergency backup' relationship.
 
Why would they do this?

Well it's just in case:

1. The relationship they are currently in, which can sometimes be done secretly without your knowing... bombs out.

or..

2. Nothing better comes along.

This is actually pretty common.  It's often everyday that we hear from folks that are confused because of the fact that their ex keeps giving off positive signals, but as soon as they 'act' on one of those signals, the ex goes BERSERK and reconfirms that they ARE NOT in a relationship...  sound familiar at all?
 
While we know that finding yourself on either side, or even both of these reasons, will be a bit of a downer and even cause you to be depressed... there is a silver lining.

It means you are still the #1 romantic interest in their life.

They may not want to feel that way! They will never admit it to themselves or you.

But, they still see you as #1

As long as they have you on the 'tether', they are feeling unsure of how their current relationship or life for that matter will turn out without you.

This is a favorable 'hand of cards' for you and if you play those cards
as they are laid out in the Magic Of Making Up System, you'll have better odds
at getting them back than any game you'll ever play in Las Vegas!

Clue #3


Uncertainty

If your ex is at the stage that is referred to by the author as the 'Weebly Wobbly Fence Walker' stage, then at a mere drop of a feather you can easily win them back.

In fact, this is one of the most common stages.  It's the stage that hundreds of guys and gals went through and were able to get their ex back in a matter of days.
(sometimes hours)

So what is a 'Weebly Wobbly Fence Walker'?

The WAY (not why or how) people make decisions can be compared to a
person, a fence and the old metaphor of being on the fence.

There are 3 stages:

1. Off the fence...  Happy and not willing to get on the fence.

2. On the fence and stable. Can see both options, but has a preference.

3. 'Weebly Wobbly' stage is most common right BEFORE or right AFTER a choice.

Now, the BIGGER the decision, the HIGHER the fence feels to the person at the top.

This is a normal decision making process for most medium and major
decisions. (small ones too, but there is little fear involved
because the fence is so low we don't recognize it.)

Think about your last large purchase?

A car maybe?

For a long time you were satisfied with your transportation and the last thing in the world you put yourself through is the heck of buying a new car.
(Off the fence)

But then...old faithful started to hiccup a bit, and then the hiccup turned into a cough and pretty soon you were on the fence, but not really entertaining the details.
(On the fence and stable)

Finally, because of a repair bill or comment made by a friend, etc... you go out and actually start looking at your options, this is when it gets scarier.

You're starting to wobble...

You think it through..."for the new car I am going to need $2,000 down and
$500 a month plus my insurance is going to go up."

"Ughhh..."

Maybe I should just sink some more money into old faithful?
She's probably got another couple years left in her?

"Hmmmmm...."

"But I sure do like the way that new Charger looks... and I love the way she purrs!"

I DON'T KNOW!!!
(Weebly Wobbly Stage)

WARNING: When someone is at the 'Weebly Wobbly' stage, they can be extremely
emotional and may lash out!  And as easy as it can be to get them back on your side,
If you aren't cautious and have a strategy you will push them to the OTHER SIDE.


 Going back to our car example.
How did you react to the auto salesperson when you were unsure last time?

Most react something along the lines of

"GO AWAY! Let me make my OWN DECISION!"

Right?

Let's go back to our fence example.

You are standing 25 feet off the ground on a very narrow fence, you
dizzily look down and the height seems more like 50 or 100 feet.
Your legs are tired and your arms are out trying to balance.
 
You're SCARED!
You don't know which way to go?

Suddenly you spot somebody walking towards you.

You tell them to Keep their distance!

But they ignore you and move closer...

Frantically you yell..."STAY AWAY!!!"

"STAAAAAY AWAAAAAY!"

In the "Magic Of Making Up System" you will see you how to get your ex from
"off the fence" to "on the fence" and all the way to "weebly wobbly".

Then it is just a matter of the right counter-intuitive moves to get them to come down on the fence on YOUR SIDE.  However, your ex may already be at "weebly wobbly".

Do they seem to want you back one minute?

Only to tell you or indicate they want space the next?

Do they get upset when you try to push?

Then they are at "weebly wobbly!"

What you do next can bring you both back together...

or...

Make them turn tail and jump the fence in the opposite direction!