How Men & Women Keep Score Differently!
Men & Women Keep Score Very Differently!
...by T. W. Jackson
Knowing how the opposite sex keeps score in a relationship is a key secret to not only having a very happy and fulfilling relationship, but it's also critical to understand in getting a failed relationship back on track.
There are some subconscious practices men and women use that can reveal the mystery in our marriage and relationships. Keeping score in our relationship is a subconscious and sometimes even a very active, yet subtle process.
Both sexes alike usually do this without knowing it and the subconscious score keeping system is something that once learned and understood, can and will make a world of difference in ALL of your relationships.
Men will always try to "earn points" with a woman they are dating in the beginning of a relationship by doing things in a "BIG" and very elaborate nature.
These "things" are meant to win a woman over in a BIG way in the man's opinion. In a man's eyes they are earning huge points for an elegant dinner or extravagant gift. From a man's vantage point he's earning some big points because he's keeping score using his own gender psychology and mind set.
A woman on the other hand will do a various number of small things and believe they are "racking up the points" based on THEIR own gender set psychology. The problem lies usually in the way men and women keep "score" very differently. To each party they believe their tally score to be one set while the reality of their partners is a much wild and different opinion.
Knowing how the opposite sex views your actions and keeps a running tally of the points you earn is usually a mystery in our marriage and relationships. Keeping score in a relationship is a subconscious and sometimes even a very active process. Men and Women alike both keep a score of "points."
The key secret to not only having a very happy and fulfilling relationship is understanding how this "point system" works for, and against you.
It can also be a vital key to understand what you did wrong and help in getting a failed relationship back on track.
There is a subconscious "point system" that men and women each keep
So what's this eluding and mysterious secret you ask?
It's pretty simple to understand and the information can be very powerful in helping you in your own relationship, marriage, or future romances and courtships. A successful relationship can revolve around good communication skills.
However there is a key to successful relationships as well which involves knowing and really understanding this "point system" that we as men and women each use, sometimes without even realizing it.
-Men typically award these points in their own way by giving points if an action is a big deal or something in a matter of speaking that is considered "great", and less points for smaller acts.
A man's score keeping system varies on a very large scale of almost none for trivial acts to very BIG points for big things.
-Women on the other hand will typically give single points for their score keeping record no matter how big or small the action is.
Just let that information sink in for a minute or two until you truly understood it.
Men award big points for big things...
Women award single points no matter what the thing is, big or small...
Regardless of how this sounds to you or even if it sounds true to you, it may not carry any relevance in your opinion to how your own "score keeping" practices are.
The important piece of this puzzle that is vital, will be the fact that this system needs to be understood. Simply understanding this information will improve ALL your relationships. While you may agree or disagree that this system or method is how you yourself keep record of your partners actions; it's important to realize that this may actually be true, even when you are aware of it or not.
And there's a good chance that it is exactly how your significant other keeps a tally of their points for YOU!
Having a firm understanding of this information can improve ALL of your relationships.
Big problems arise when we are trying to win points, because we're using our own "gender's mindset"
So lets say a man wants to score BIG "points" with a woman.
He thinks like a man and says to himself...
"I'm going to do something REALLY BIG and score a lot of points at one time..."
"Yeah! Then I'll be good to go for a couple weeks. Maybe even a month!"
So, he does "something big"...like buying an expensive piece of jewelery... which any woman would love to receive and be ecstatic about...
But...
The problem is he then mistakenly calculates that he really doesn't need to do anything more for awhile.
Now, MOST women, if given a choice between getting a piece of jewelery OR, getting a love note one day...an unexpected "I just called to say I love you" telephone call the next day...a single rose the next...and many other SMALL things at often intervals, will go with the "many small things often" over the one HUGE thing 90% of the time.
Does it make sense now why some arguments go like this:
Woman: "Why don't you bring me flowers anymore?"
Man: Very aggravated..."WHAT?... I just bought you a gold necklace...
JUST LAST MONTH!"
Sound familiar?
You see, the ENTIRE TIME... he's thinking he is good to go for quite some time BECAUSE that is HOW MEN KEEP SCORE.
(Note: Men think, "How can I come up with so many ways to earn points with her?")
Now ladies...this works...or doesn't work in the reverse too.
Women generally do nice "little" things every day...
And they mistakenly believe they are "racking up" a lot of points.
-Pick up his dry cleaning 1 point
-Give him a back massage 1 point
-Leave him a little love note 1 point
and on and on...
But what happens?
A big argument is brewing, because she feels like she has racked up all of these points... and he never shows any appreciation for all of the points she has earned.
In "his" mind he does appreciate those little things...but he doesn't keep score that way...and is not going to make a big deal out of a few one pointers.
(Ladies want to know ways to score HUGE points with men?)
The lady would be much better off if she just bought tickets to a BIG ballgame...she would have scored like a GAZZILLION points all at ONCE...and SHE would be good to go for WEEKS! And he would tell all of his friends and thank her profusely as well as NEVER FORGETTING the time she bought tickets to the big playoff game.
Cuz' that's just the way it works with men!
How do you use this to win back the hearts of your ex?
Pretty simple...
Men... you will be much better off doing a series of small things.
Women... you need to figure out ONE BIG thing.
But if you are "on the rocks"...it is a little more difficult...right?
There is a way to get around this...
For Men... we recommend that you get a copy of The Magic Of Making Up, because this will get you "back into scoring position" to score the points quickly
...and effectively!
Ladies... if you are confused about whether or not he still cares, we are completely sure that you can find out today with the resources in The Magic Of Making Up and use many of the great methods that are easy to learn. Such as racking up those BIG points, and some other easy to use techniques, that are proven to get your ex back. (And No... we don't mean SEX.)
Get your copy today and get back on track with your relationship!
This guide has our highest recommendations because the techniques are genuine, and the entire system works! ...Enough said!
If it is important to you... and you wish to revive your relationship...
It would be silly not to have this guide!
For the price of a dinner date... you can be learning;
How To Get Your Ex Back!
Get Back Into Scoring Position!
Knowing how the opposite sex keeps score in a relationship is a key secret to not only having a very happy and fulfilling relationship, but it's also critical to understand in getting a failed relationship back on track.
There are some subconscious practices men and women use that can reveal the mystery in our marriage and relationships. Keeping score in our relationship is a subconscious and sometimes even a very active, yet subtle process.
Both sexes alike usually do this without knowing it and the subconscious score keeping system is something that once learned and understood, can and will make a world of difference in ALL of your relationships.
Men will always try to "earn points" with a woman they are dating in the beginning of a relationship by doing things in a "BIG" and very elaborate nature.
These "things" are meant to win a woman over in a BIG way in the man's opinion. In a man's eyes they are earning huge points for an elegant dinner or extravagant gift. From a man's vantage point he's earning some big points because he's keeping score using his own gender psychology and mind set.
A woman on the other hand will do a various number of small things and believe they are "racking up the points" based on THEIR own gender set psychology. The problem lies usually in the way men and women keep "score" very differently. To each party they believe their tally score to be one set while the reality of their partners is a much wild and different opinion.
Knowing how the opposite sex views your actions and keeps a running tally of the points you earn is usually a mystery in our marriage and relationships. Keeping score in a relationship is a subconscious and sometimes even a very active process. Men and Women alike both keep a score of "points."
The key secret to not only having a very happy and fulfilling relationship is understanding how this "point system" works for, and against you.
It can also be a vital key to understand what you did wrong and help in getting a failed relationship back on track.
There is a subconscious "point system" that men and women each keep
So what's this eluding and mysterious secret you ask?
It's pretty simple to understand and the information can be very powerful in helping you in your own relationship, marriage, or future romances and courtships. A successful relationship can revolve around good communication skills.
However there is a key to successful relationships as well which involves knowing and really understanding this "point system" that we as men and women each use, sometimes without even realizing it.
-Men typically award these points in their own way by giving points if an action is a big deal or something in a matter of speaking that is considered "great", and less points for smaller acts.
A man's score keeping system varies on a very large scale of almost none for trivial acts to very BIG points for big things.
-Women on the other hand will typically give single points for their score keeping record no matter how big or small the action is.
Just let that information sink in for a minute or two until you truly understood it.
Men award big points for big things...
Women award single points no matter what the thing is, big or small...
Regardless of how this sounds to you or even if it sounds true to you, it may not carry any relevance in your opinion to how your own "score keeping" practices are.
The important piece of this puzzle that is vital, will be the fact that this system needs to be understood. Simply understanding this information will improve ALL your relationships. While you may agree or disagree that this system or method is how you yourself keep record of your partners actions; it's important to realize that this may actually be true, even when you are aware of it or not.
And there's a good chance that it is exactly how your significant other keeps a tally of their points for YOU!
Having a firm understanding of this information can improve ALL of your relationships.
Big problems arise when we are trying to win points, because we're using our own "gender's mindset"
So lets say a man wants to score BIG "points" with a woman.
He thinks like a man and says to himself...
"I'm going to do something REALLY BIG and score a lot of points at one time..."
"Yeah! Then I'll be good to go for a couple weeks. Maybe even a month!"
So, he does "something big"...like buying an expensive piece of jewelery... which any woman would love to receive and be ecstatic about...
But...
The problem is he then mistakenly calculates that he really doesn't need to do anything more for awhile.
Now, MOST women, if given a choice between getting a piece of jewelery OR, getting a love note one day...an unexpected "I just called to say I love you" telephone call the next day...a single rose the next...and many other SMALL things at often intervals, will go with the "many small things often" over the one HUGE thing 90% of the time.
Does it make sense now why some arguments go like this:
Woman: "Why don't you bring me flowers anymore?"
Man: Very aggravated..."WHAT?... I just bought you a gold necklace...
JUST LAST MONTH!"
Sound familiar?
You see, the ENTIRE TIME... he's thinking he is good to go for quite some time BECAUSE that is HOW MEN KEEP SCORE.
(Note: Men think, "How can I come up with so many ways to earn points with her?")
Now ladies...this works...or doesn't work in the reverse too.
Women generally do nice "little" things every day...
And they mistakenly believe they are "racking up" a lot of points.
-Pick up his dry cleaning 1 point
-Give him a back massage 1 point
-Leave him a little love note 1 point
and on and on...
But what happens?
A big argument is brewing, because she feels like she has racked up all of these points... and he never shows any appreciation for all of the points she has earned.
In "his" mind he does appreciate those little things...but he doesn't keep score that way...and is not going to make a big deal out of a few one pointers.
(Ladies want to know ways to score HUGE points with men?)
The lady would be much better off if she just bought tickets to a BIG ballgame...she would have scored like a GAZZILLION points all at ONCE...and SHE would be good to go for WEEKS! And he would tell all of his friends and thank her profusely as well as NEVER FORGETTING the time she bought tickets to the big playoff game.
Cuz' that's just the way it works with men!
How do you use this to win back the hearts of your ex?
Pretty simple...
Men... you will be much better off doing a series of small things.
Women... you need to figure out ONE BIG thing.
But if you are "on the rocks"...it is a little more difficult...right?
There is a way to get around this...
For Men... we recommend that you get a copy of The Magic Of Making Up, because this will get you "back into scoring position" to score the points quickly
...and effectively!
Ladies... if you are confused about whether or not he still cares, we are completely sure that you can find out today with the resources in The Magic Of Making Up and use many of the great methods that are easy to learn. Such as racking up those BIG points, and some other easy to use techniques, that are proven to get your ex back. (And No... we don't mean SEX.)
Get your copy today and get back on track with your relationship!
This guide has our highest recommendations because the techniques are genuine, and the entire system works! ...Enough said!
If it is important to you... and you wish to revive your relationship...
It would be silly not to have this guide!
For the price of a dinner date... you can be learning;
How To Get Your Ex Back!
Get Back Into Scoring Position!