I Need My Space!
What Does "I Need My Space" really mean?
"I need my space!" ...by T.W. Jackson
Have you heard this expression used as the reason for a break up?
Guys use this one a lot...and gals, judging from all of the questions we
get are using it more and more these days as well.
What's it mean though?
Before we get into the actual meaning...
it is super important to know that the warning signs start early.
See if any of the following sounds a tad familiar to you...
-Guys stop calling as often
-Women start spending more time with their girlfriends.
-More "problems" start popping up at work and school.
"My grades are slipping" or "we have a big project at work"
-A general attitude that makes you feel like you are being avoided.
These are the early signs, but generally we give them the benefit of the doubt...
But sometimes we figure out that what they say and what they do are two separate things from what they've been telling us. It doesn't match up with what they're doing.
Do you understand what this means?
They say they have to spend more time studying, but then we find out through the "grapevine" that they've been out partying or clubbing.
The big question is what do you do at that point?
We have a natural tendency to confront them usually.
"Hey! ...You said you needed your space so you could spend time studying, and then I find you out at the bar or clubs with your friends? What gives?"
That scenario is exactly the WRONG thing to do and the WRONG way to handle it!
What you're doing when you confront your partner is PUSHING!
And as you may know that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction...
This is VERY true in relationships.
You PUSH... They PULL...
They pull away... And pull away... And pull away...
They feel they have "no space."
So what should you be doing instead?
You need to PULL... NOT push!
Not only is this effective, but it is also how you are going to get them back
...Even if they have given you their ultimatum, "I need my space"...
So what is pulling?
Pulling is simple attraction!
Not just on a physical level ...although being very real here, it does help.
Would you like to learn how to pull, and how to attract your lover back?
How would you like to never hear that lame excuse, "I need my space" ever again?
Fair warning: Our recommendation while being highly effective...
can be considered by some to be "sneaky" and "manipulative"...
All is fair in love and war!
...Right?
If you really want to master the laws of attraction, and pull your love back to you...
We HIGHLY recommend
"The Magic Of Making Up"
You can download it here right now:
This is the stuff that Mom and Dad didn't teach you!
The "The Magic Of Making Up" system contains methods, strategies, and techniques that are not taught anywhere else.
Even better... it works!
It's only $39 to learn how to pull and attract.
You will never have to hear, "I need my space" as an excuse again.
This is an instant download, which means you can have it in your possession, and be reading it within the next couple of minutes or so.
If you so decide not to download "The Magic Of Making Up," ...then what will you do the next time you feel your guy or gal pulling away?
"I need my space!" ...by T.W. Jackson
Have you heard this expression used as the reason for a break up?
Guys use this one a lot...and gals, judging from all of the questions we
get are using it more and more these days as well.
What's it mean though?
Before we get into the actual meaning...
it is super important to know that the warning signs start early.
See if any of the following sounds a tad familiar to you...
-Guys stop calling as often
-Women start spending more time with their girlfriends.
-More "problems" start popping up at work and school.
"My grades are slipping" or "we have a big project at work"
-A general attitude that makes you feel like you are being avoided.
These are the early signs, but generally we give them the benefit of the doubt...
But sometimes we figure out that what they say and what they do are two separate things from what they've been telling us. It doesn't match up with what they're doing.
Do you understand what this means?
They say they have to spend more time studying, but then we find out through the "grapevine" that they've been out partying or clubbing.
The big question is what do you do at that point?
We have a natural tendency to confront them usually.
"Hey! ...You said you needed your space so you could spend time studying, and then I find you out at the bar or clubs with your friends? What gives?"
That scenario is exactly the WRONG thing to do and the WRONG way to handle it!
What you're doing when you confront your partner is PUSHING!
And as you may know that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction...
This is VERY true in relationships.
You PUSH... They PULL...
They pull away... And pull away... And pull away...
They feel they have "no space."
So what should you be doing instead?
You need to PULL... NOT push!
Not only is this effective, but it is also how you are going to get them back
...Even if they have given you their ultimatum, "I need my space"...
So what is pulling?
Pulling is simple attraction!
Not just on a physical level ...although being very real here, it does help.
Would you like to learn how to pull, and how to attract your lover back?
How would you like to never hear that lame excuse, "I need my space" ever again?
Fair warning: Our recommendation while being highly effective...
can be considered by some to be "sneaky" and "manipulative"...
All is fair in love and war!
...Right?
If you really want to master the laws of attraction, and pull your love back to you...
We HIGHLY recommend
"The Magic Of Making Up"
You can download it here right now:
This is the stuff that Mom and Dad didn't teach you!
The "The Magic Of Making Up" system contains methods, strategies, and techniques that are not taught anywhere else.
Even better... it works!
It's only $39 to learn how to pull and attract.
You will never have to hear, "I need my space" as an excuse again.
This is an instant download, which means you can have it in your possession, and be reading it within the next couple of minutes or so.
If you so decide not to download "The Magic Of Making Up," ...then what will you do the next time you feel your guy or gal pulling away?